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ournal
of
the
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Journal
and
Digest
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FORBIDDEN
PROVISIONS
IN
PRENUPTIAL
AGREEMENTS:
LEGAL
AND
PRACTICAL
CONSIDERATIONS
FOR
THE
MATRIMONIAL
LAWYER
TOI{ATHAÀI
E. FIELDS
Volume
21
2008
Number
2
VoL.21,2008
Forbidden
Provisions
Forbidden
ProvÍsions
in
Prenuptial
Agreements:
Legal
and
Practical
ConsÍderations
for
the
Matrimonial
Lawyer
by
Jonathan
E. Fields*
413
I.
fntroduction
It
may
well
have
been
rapper
Kanye
West,s
,,GoId
Digger,',
which
topped
the
charts
a
few years
ago,
that
ultimately
brought
prentrptial
agreements
into
the cultural
mainstream.
In
extolling
the
virtues
of the
prenuptial
agreement,
the song
warns
that
with-
out
one,
the
football
star you
see
,,on
TV
any
given
Sunday"
win[s]
"the
Superbowl
and
drive[s]
off
in
a Hyundãi.,,
Later,tie
chorus pounds
away
"we
want
prenup!
we
want
prenup!,'1
Kanye's
enthusiasm
for prenuptial
agreements
is
hardly
unique,
and
they
have
become
more popular
in
the past
several
years.2
This
makes
it
all
the
more
imperative
that
matrimonial
lawyers
understand
the
permissible
scope
of
this
critical
docu-
ment.
This
article
focuses
on
the
scope
of
what is permissible
to
include
in
a
prenuptial
agreement.
-
A
prenuptial
agreement
is
"an
agreement
between
prospec_
tive
spouses
made
in
contemplation
of
marriage
and
to be
effec-
tive
upon
marriage
that fixes
the
respective
financial
obligations
H" ir*u
chusett
executive
board
of
the Massachusetts
council
of Family
Mediation.
Jon
re-
ceived
a J'D.
f¡om
Boston
university
and
holds
a 8.A.,
curn
laude,
from
Am-
herst
College.
1
Kanye
West,
"Late
Registration,',
(Roc-A-Fella
Records,
LLC
2005).
rohibited
Subject
Matter
in
prenuptial
Agreemenß,
$
are
(Ronald
L.
Brown
& Laura
W. Moigan,
eds.,
A
4L4 Journal
of the
American
Academy
of
Matrimonial
Lawyers
and
consequences
of
married
couples
upon death and/or
divorce."3
II. Agreements
That
Promote
Divorce
At common
law,
one of
the rationales
in
support of the
pro-
position
that
prenuptial agreements
were
void
ab initio was that
they
were
thought
to
promote
divorce.a
While
this
is no longer
the case,
a
particular agreement
that
"tends
unreasonably
en-
courage divorce
or
separation"
will
be unenforceable.s
Indeed,
modern courts
continue
to express
this rule
in dicta but
have only
invalidated
prenuptial agreements
on these
grounds in a handful
of
cases-two
of them
from
California,
a state
that appears
to
have
retreated
from
that
position.
The first
case,
In re Noghrey,6
involved
an agreement
whereby,
in the
event of
divorce,
the
prospective
husband would
give
the
prospective wife
an amount
the appellate
court
tbund
to
be both oversized
in comparison
to
the rest
of the
estate and so
financially
tempting
to the wife
that
it spurred
her
into
getting
a
divorce.
The agreement,
therefore,
was
invalidated.
In
the second
case,
In re
Daiani,T
the agreement
provided
that
the
wife receive
the
equivalent
of 5,000
Jordanian
dinars
(about
$1,700),
upon
divorce.
Incredibly,
despite
the
fact
that
the wife
stood
only
to receive
$L,700
(in
L988),
the
court held
that
"the
contract
clearly
provided for the
wife
to
profit
by
a di-
vorce,"
and found
it invalid.
It
is difficult
to imagine
any agree-
ment
in contemplation
of
divorce
that would
survive
a
Dajani
analysis.
California's
appellate
court,
in a subsequent
case,
In re
Mar-
riage
of Bellio,s
reiterated
the
general
rule that
agreements
pro-
motive
of
divorce
are unenforceable,
but expressly
stated
its
belief
that
Dajanl was
wrongly
decided. "A
dowry
worth
3
See
Frelds, supra
note 2, at
$1.01.
4
See
generally
id.
s
Id.;
Resrerelr¡nNr
(Secorvo)
or
CoNrn¡.crs
$
190
(1981)'
See
also 7
WiIIßton
on Contracß
$
16:19
(4th
ed. 2007)(stating
that
a contract
promoting
divo¡ce
will
not be upheld).
See
also McHugh
v.
McHugh,
436 A'zd 8,
12
(Conn.
1980).
6
215 Cal.
Rptr.
153
(Cal.
Ct.
App. 1985).
7
25t Cal.
Rptr. 871
(Cal.
Ct.
App.
1988).
8
129
Cal.
Rptr. 2d 556
(Cal.
Cr.
App. 2003).
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Provßions
415
$l-,700,"
noted
the court,
"is insufficient
to
jeopardize
a
viable
marriage."e
For
the
most
part,
the
practitioner
seeking
to invalidate
a
prenuptial
agreement
on the
grounds
that it
encourages
divorce
has
a difficult
challenge.
One
area, however,
where it
may be
possible
to
persuade
a
court on
this score
concerns
escalator
clauses
(in
which
the
amount
of
property
or support
increases
upon
attaining
certain
marriage
milestones).
Arguably,
if the
spouse
can save himself
money
by filing
before
a certain
dead-
line,
this might promote
divorce.
Consider the
high
profile
case
of
Donald
Trump
when he filed
for
divorce
against
Marla Maples
on
the eve
of an
anniversary
deadtne.ro
Although
the issue
has
hardly
been
addressed in
the
case law,
a
Connecticut
court has
held
void
a
prenuptial
agreement providing
a lump
sum of
$25,000
for
each
year
of
marriage
on
the
grounds
thaì it
faciti-
tated
and
promoted
divorce.ll
III.
Spousal
lVaivers in
ERISA
Plans
A.
Survivor
Benefits
ERISA-covered
pension
plans pose
special challenges
for
the
domestic
relations practitioner.l2
The
anti-alienation provi-
sions prevent
them from
being
divided
or transferred
except
through
the
mechanism
of
a
qualified
domestic
relations
order
(QDnO¡.t.
The
drafter
of
a
prenuptial
agreement
needs
to take
s
Id.
at 559.
10
Laune
W. Moncex
& Bnerr
R. Tunxen,
AttacrrNc
eNo De¡eNo-
rNo
Manrrer
AcnenlrnNrs
380
(ABA
2001).
11
Davis
v. Davis,
No.
FA 9501448075,
7996
WL 456335 (Conn.
Super.
Ct.,
July 29,7996).
!2
The
Employee
Retirement
Income
Security Act
of 1974
(ERISA)
29
u.s.c.
$
1001-1461
(2007).
13
A
QDRO
is
a type of
domestic
relations
order that "creates
or recog-
nizes
the existence
of
an alternate
payee's
rights to,
or assigns
to an alternate
payee
the right
to, receive
all or
a
portion
of the benefits
payable
with respect
to
a
participant
under a
plan."
29
U.S.C.
$
1056(dX3XB) (2007).
The
purpose
underlying
the
anti-alienation provision
was to operate
as a spendtbrift,
to
safe-
guard
and to
prevent
dissipation
of retirement
funds, Boggs
v. Boggs,
520 U.S.
833,
850, reh'g
denied, 521
U.S. 1138 (1997).
Congress
creared
rhe
eDRO
mechanism
as a
limited
exception
in
order to
protect
the
financial secwity
of
ex-spouses
and dependents
after divorce.
Id. The
United
States Supreme
court recently granted
certiorari
on the issue
of
whether
the
Fifth
circuit
was
4L6
Journal of the American Academy of Matrimonial
Lawyers
special care, as well,
with
regard to ERISA
qualified
plans,
since
the statute limits the
ability of
parties
to waive certain ERISA
rights.
At the
crux of
the matter is
the
Retirement Equity
Act of
1984,14
which
amended
ERISA for many reasons, one of
which
was
"to
ensure that
a
participant's
spouse
receives survivor
bene-
fits
from a retirement
plan
even
if
the
participant
dies
before
reaching retirement age,"ts It dictated that defined
benefit and
certain other covered
pension plansl6
were required to
provide
for
a
"qualified
pre-retirement
survivor annuity" that, by opera-
tion of law, would
go
to
the
participant's
surviving spouse
unless
waived
in favor
of another beneficiary with the written consent
of the spouse.tT
Regarding
whether a waiver
in
a
prenuptial
agreement con-
stitutes an effective spousal waiver, the
position
of the Depart-
ment
of the
Tieasury
is unequivocal. z\ccording to the
regulations,
"an
agreement entered into
prior
to marriage does
not satisfy applicable consent requirements."ls Because
the sig-
natories
to
prenuptial
agreements are not
yet
"spouses,"
most
courts
have interpreted
the
law
similarly and
have
found that a
correct in holding that a
QDRO
was the only valid way a divorcing spouse can
waive her right to receive her ex-husband's
pension
benefits
under
ERISA.
Kennedy v. Plan Adm'r for Dupont Savings and Inv. Plan,2008
WL
423542,76
USLW 3276,76 USLW 3425
(U.S.
Feb 19,2008)
(NO.
07-636).
t4
Pub. L. No. 98-397,
98
Stat. 1.429, ametding 26
U.S.C.
$$
401 . This law
is also referred to by its acronym
"REA."
1s
Hurwitz v. Sher, 982F.2d778,787
(2d
Ctr.1992). See ¿/so Hawxhurst v.
Hawxhurst, 723 A.2d 58, 64
(N.J.
Super. Ct. 1998)
(citations
omitted)
("ERISA,
as
amended
by the
Retirement
Equity Act of
1984,
also acts to safeguard the
financial security of
widows
by mandating that
pension plans provide
automatic
swvivor benefits.").
1-6
See
29
U.S.C.
$
1055
(stating
that all defined benefit
plans
plus
various
other
plans
defined in the statute are subject to the requirernent).
77
"Specifically,
the waiver
of
a surviving spouse's right to
benefits
is not
valid unless
(1)
it
is in
writing;
(2)
it either recites the alternative beneficiary or
expressly
permits
the employee
to
designate an alternáte without further con-
sent of the spouse; and
(3)
it
'acknowledges
the
effect' of the waiver and
is
noLarned
or
witnessed by a
plan
representative. In addition,
the waiver
must
be made within the
"applicable
election
period."
In re Marriage of Rahn, 914
P2d
463,465
(Colo. Ct. App. 1995),
citing
29 II.S.C.
$$
105.5(cXz)(a)
and
10ss(c)(1)(A).
18
26
CFR
$1.401(a)-20.
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417
prenuptial
agreement is ineffective
to waive survivor
benefits.le
The
concept
is
rudimentary;
as one court
put
it,
"a
spouse-to-be
is not
a
spouse."2o
Considering
the
judicial
deference that
courts
must
give
to
agenÇy
interpretations,
this is a difficult hurdle
for
proponents
of
prenuptial
agreements to
jump.
As litigants
continue to feel that the intentions
of their
dearly departed
are being frustrated
by the
procedural
require-
ments of the law,
they have urged courts,
without much success,
to
consider the
intentions of the
parties.
Most courts find,
how-
ever,
the fact
of the
purported
waiver
in the
prenuptial
agree-
ment,
along
with
the fact
that the deceased named
people
other
than his surviving
spouse as survivor
beneficiaries with the
plan
administrator,
to be irrelevant.
As
to
the
scope of the
waiver,
practitioners
should remem-
ber
that ERISA
only
protects
surviving spouses
and, more im-
portantly,
that
the statute is construed
quite
literally:
one has to
be both
surviving and a spouse
to enjoy the
protections
of
ER-
ISA's
spousal
waiver
Iaw.21
Practitioners must
also remember
that
most courts have
held that the law
only applies to survivor
Le
Hagwood
v. Newton, 282F.3d285
(4tl¡'Cír.2}l2);National
Auto Deal-
ers
v.
Arbeitman,
89 F.3d 496
(8th
Cir.1996); Pedro Enter. v. Perdue,
998F.2d
497
(7th
Cir. 1993);Howard
v. Branham & Baker
Coal Co.,968 F.zd 121,4
(6th
Cir. 1992);
Nellis v. Boeing
Co.,
7992
WL 122773
(D.
Kan. 7992);
see also
Greenbaum
Doll & McDonald PLLC
v. Sandler, Nos. 06-6494,06-6496,2007
WL 4232825
(6th
Cir. Dec. 3, 2007); John Deere
Deferred Savs. Plan For Wage
Employees
v. Propst, 2007
WL 4594681(E.D. Wis. 2007). But
see Hurwitz v.
Sher, 982
F.2d at 781
(finding prenuptial
agreement to be ineffective
waiver but
reserving
judgment
whether the agreement might
have been an effective waiver
"if
its only
deficiency were that it had
been entered into before the marriage.");
In
re Estate
of
Hopkins,
574 N.E.2d 230
(Ill.
App. Ct. 1991)
(appearing
to
be
the
only decision holding
that a
premarital
agreement constituted
a valid waiver
of
survivor
benefits).
20
"Because
the
IRS
is an agency
'entrusted
to administer' the
tax
coun-
terpart
of ERISA, we defer
to
its interpretation
of 26 U.S.C
g
417
(a),"
citing
Chevron
U.S.A., Inc. v. National Res. Def.
Council,Inc.,467 U.S. 837
(1984),
and
Hurwitz v. Sher,
982 F.zd at 782
(applying
Tfeas. Reg.
$
1..40 7(a)-20 to
support
a conclusion that
premarital
agreement did not
waive spousal benefits
under
$
205
of ERISA). See also Hagwood
v.
Newton,
282F.3d at 290.
21
See
generally
Albe¡t
Feuer, Who Is Entitled
to Survivor Benefits
from
ERISA
Plans?,40
J. Mansnar-r L.
Rev. 919
(2001).
4I8
lournal
of the American
Academy
of Matrimonial
Lawyers
benefits. ERISA
does not protect
"a
divorcing
spouse's
marital
interest in
a surviving
spouse's
pension
plar¡."22
In In re
Marriage
of Rahn,23 the
parties
prepared
(one
week
before
the wedding
and
without the
assistance of
counsel)
and
entered into
a
prenuptial
agreement,
in
which each
party
waived
all
claims to the
property
of the
other. At
the time,
the husband
had
a
vested
interest in
a
pension
plan
provided
by his
employer,
an
airline.
Ten
years
later,
the
parties
filed
a co-petition
for divorce
and
the trial court
held that the
prenuptial
agreement
\ilas an
effec-
tive waiver
of any interest
in the husband's pension
plan.
The
wife appealed,
arguing inter
alia that the
prenuptial
agreement
did not constitute
an
effective waiver
of her
spousal rights
to the
husband's
pension
because
she never
executed
a
post-marital
waiver
as
required
by ERISA.
The husband
argued
that
the
spousal
waiver
statute2a applies
only to
waivers of
survivor
bene-
fits
and not to
any other
pension
benefits,
and that
his
wife was
therefore free to
waive rights
to his
pension
other than
survivor
benefits. The
court agreed.
As an
ex-wife
whose ex-husband
was
alive,
she
probably
took
little
comfort in
the court's
finding
that
the
prenuptial
agreement
was ineffective
to
waive survivor
benefits.2s
T}ne Rahn
interpretation
has been
almost
universally
fol-
lowed.26
In Critchell
v. Critchell,zT
the court found
that
the
pre-
22
Savage-Keough v.
Keough,86l
A.2d 137,137 (N.J.
Super. Ct.2004)
(emphasis
added).
23
974P.zd 463
(Colo.
Ct. App
1995)
24
29 U.S.C.
$
1055.
25
See also Sabad v. Fessenden,
825 A.zd 682,695
(Pa.
Super.
Cl2003)
(citations
omitted), noting that
"the
spousal rights
under ERISA
do not
survive
a
judgment
of divorce
and once
a divorce is
granted,
the survivorship
benefits
are
moot".
26
Savage-Keough,86l
A.zd
at I31; Moor-Jankowski
v. Moor-Jankowski,
222
A.D.2d 422
(N.Y.
Ct. App.
Div. 1995);
Edmonds
v. Edmonds,
710
N.Y.S.2d
765
(Sup.
Ct. 2000); Stewart v.
Stewart,
541 S.E.2d 209
(S.C.
2000). But
see
Richards
v. Richards,
640
N.Y.S.2d
709
(1st
Dept. 1995)
(holding
that
a
prenup-
tial agreement
did not bar a nonparticipant
spouse from
equitable distribution
of her
participant
spouse's
pension).
T\e Richards
decision has
been criticized
for its failure
to distinguish
between
survivor benefits
a¡d
other
interests
in
ERISA
plans.
See Sabad, 825 A.zd
at 697, in which
the Pennsylvania
court,
interpreting New
York law, rejected
Richards in
favo¡ of Moor-Iankowski,222
A.2d
422.
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nuptial
agreement
at issue
operated
to
waive a former
spouse,s
property
interest
(as
distinct from
her
survivor
annuity)zs
in her
former
husband's pension.
In
Critchell,
as
in
Rahn,
the
court
noted
that
ERISA's
spousal
waiver
provision2e
does
not
address
a former
spouse's
capacity
to
waive
her
property
interest
in her
husband's pension
at the
time of
divorce.
The
spousal
waiver
statute
"does
not
create
or
afford
a former
spouse
any
substan-
tive rights."3o
The
divorcing
spouse's
right
to
a
property
interest
in
pension
benefits,
the
court reminded,
is
only
a
function
of
state
domestic
relations
law.
Even
if
a spouse
executes
a valid post-marital
ERISA
waiver, there
can be
problems
with
enforcement
if that
spouse is
under
35
years
of
age at the
time
of execution.
Practitioners
should
note
that
the
statute provides
that
the waiver
becomes
ineffective
on
the nonparticipant
spouse's
35th
birthday
and the
spouse
must
execute
a new
waiver.31
B.
Rollovers
The question
of rollovers
can
compïcate
matters.
What
happens,
for
example,
when
a
pension
in
existence
at the time
that
a
prenuptial
agreement
is
executed
has
been rolled
over
to
an IRA
by
the time
of the
parties'
divorce?
The
husband
tn.
Hawxhurst
v. Hawxhurs?2
found
out the
an-
swer
the hard
way. The
prenuptial
agreement provided
that his
wife
was entitled
to
50
percent
of
his
assets in
the event
of
a
divorce
after
a marriage
of five
years
or longer.
About
five
months
before
he filed
a
complaint
for
divorce,
Mr. Hawxhurst
took
an
early retirement
package
from
his
employer,
New
Jersey
Bell.
As
part
of the
package,
he took
a lump-sum
distribution
of
his pension
benefits
which
was accomplished
by
a
rollover
of
the
pension
funds
to an
IRA
(a
non-ERISA
asset)
in his name.
The
27
Critchell
v.
Critchell,
746 A.zd282(D.C.2000)
(citations
omitred).
2a
Id.
aT.284. But,
as noted
earlier,
this
is of no
comfort
to the divorced
spouse
whose
ex-spouse
is
still alive.
2e
29 U.S.C.
$
1055.
30
Critchell,746
A.zd 58
(N.J.
Super.
App.
Div. 1993).
3t
Denise
K. Mills,
Beware
of
the Trap-Marital
Agreernents
and ERISA
Benefits,
23 Cot-o.
Ltw.
577, 599
(1994);29
U.S.C.
$
f055(c)(7)(U).
32
723 A.zd
58,65
(N.J.
App.
Div.1998).
420
lournal
of the
American Academy
of
Matrimonial Lawyers
funds
were
never commingled
and were
directly
traceable to the
pension funds.
Mr. Hawxhurst
argued that,
under ERISA,
his
wife
was
not
entitled
to the IRA because
those funds
originated
from his
pen-
sion and were
therefore
"forever
sheltered"
by
ERISA. The
court disagreed,
holding
that once the
funds were
distributed,
ERISA's
anti-alienation
provisions no longer
protected
them.
The benefits
of the
pension,
the court
concluded,
are protected
"only
while
they are
within the
fiduciary
responsibility of the
fund manaSeÍ."2t
Considering
the landscape of
this area,
creative drafting is
imperative and,
to that end,
a few considerations
are offered.
Counsel
would be wise
to include
in their agreements
provisions
requiring
that the
particþant
spouse
provide to the nonpartici-
pant
spouse
a waiver
form within
a certain
time frame and that
the latter be
required
to execute the waiver
within a certain time
period
following
their
marriage. If the waiver
is
delivered and
properly
executed,
of course,
there is
no
problem.
If, however, the waiver
is neither delivered
nor executed,
the
participant spouse can
take the extraordinary
act of seeking spe-
cific
performance
of
the contract.
Although actions
regarding
is-
sues arising
during an
intact marriage
are
"generally
frowned
upon
as disruptive
of marital
harmony,"
courts have
intervened
in some cases.3a Of
course,
a
plaintiff-spouse who files
such a
suit
may soon
find himsell
a defendant-spouse
in divorce
court.
This does
not necessarily
mean that a
party
who executed
a
prenuptial
agreement
purporting
to waive
survivor benefits
can-
not ultimately
be
held to his
bargain. Assume
that
parties
en-
tered
into a
prenuptial
agreement
containing
the
provisions
set
forth above, and
one
party,
the wife,
failed to sign
the waiver
following
the marriage
despite a clear
directive in
the agreement
to do so.
The husband
died and she
sought
her statutorily
pro-
33
Id., citing
Guidry
v. Sheet Metal Workers
Nat'l Pension
Fund, 39 F.3d
1078,1082
(10th
Cir. 7994),
cert. denied,514
U.S. 1063
(1995).
34
See
generally
AlBxeNoen
LrNoev &
Lours I.
Panrev, LrNpsv axo
Panrsv
oN Sepen¡.rroN
AcnssvENTS AND
ANreNurrrer
CoNrnacls
S
110.75
(2d
ed.2002). See id.
ar.
S
L10.75(2)(c)
("\Vhen
the
[prenuptial]
agree-
ment
provided
for the husband
to
purchase
a life
insurance
policy in
a specified
amount
for the wife's
benefit, she
could sue during
the marriage
to specifically
enforce the obligation,"),
citing
Lloyd
[sic]
v. Lloyd
[sic],48
S.E.2d 365
(Ga.
1e48).
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tected
survivor
benefit.
The
plan
refused
to disburse,
arguing
that the
prenuptial
agreement
operated
as a
waiver to
benefits.
The
wife filed
suit, taking
the
position,
consistent
with that
of the
Department
of Treasury
regulations
and most
courts,
that the
agreement
did
not constitute
a valid
waiver. The
trial court
and
the
appeals
court found
for
the
wife and directed
the
plan
admin-
istrator
to disburse
proceeds
in
accordance
with ERISA.
The
plan
administrator
disbursed
the
proceeds
to the
surviving
spouse.
The
executor
of the
decedent's
estate
may
not, however,
be
out of remedies.
He may
have
a cause
of
action against
the sur-
viving spouse
for
breach
of the
prenuptial
agreement.
As one
court
put
it:
If
[the
decedent
husband]
was
prevented
from
filing
a fully
executed
designation form
with
the
plan
administrator
because
of a
breach by
[his
wife, the surviving
spouse]
of her solemn
undertaking
to sign the
form,
we see no reason
at all why
[the
executor]
may
not hold
her to
her bargain
and require
her
to disgorge
whatever
benefits she receives
as
a
result
of the breach.3s
The
counter
suit
by the executor
is
not itself
without flaws.
A
surviving
spouse
seeking
to
avoid the
agreement
may
argue
that
the
action is merely
a way
to circumvent
ERISA
and
thus
should
be dismissed.
Indeed,
in
one case,
the
decedent's
estate
argued
that
the court
should
compel
the surviving
spouse
to
up-
hold
her
end
of the
bargain. The
court
rejected
the
estate's
',at-
tempt
to
circumvent
the requirements
of valid
consent
under
ERISA."36
To
shore up
the enforcement prospects
of
their agreement,
drafters
of
prenuptial
agreements
may
wish to
attach the
consent
form
as an exhibit
to the
agreement.
An
agreement
might
also
require
that if the
waiver is
not
executed
within
a
particular
time
frame,
then
the
participant
spouse
is appointed
as the non-par-
ticipant
spouse's
attorney-in-fact
for
the
specific
purpose
of com-
pleting
the
waiver.37
(However,
it is
not clear
that
a
particular
3s
Callahan
v. Hutsell
et. al. 7993
V/L
533557
(6th
Cir. 1993).
See
also
John Deere
v. Estate
of
Propst,
2007
WL 459468I (E.D.
Wis. 2007)
in
which the
court held
that ERISA preempted
any such
contract claim
that the
estate might
assert.
36
Zinnv.
Donaldson
Co.,799 F.
Supp.69
(C.C.D.
Minn. 1992).
37
Dennis
I. Belcher
& Laura
O. Pomeroy,
A
Practitioner's
Guide
for
Ne-
gotiating,
Drafting
and Enforcing
Premarital
Agreements,37
R¡er-
pnop.
pnoe.
422 Journal of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers
plan
may be compelled
to
accept this
as a valid waiver).
Drafters
could also include
a
provision
that
gives
the
owner's
beneficiaries
a cause of action against the surviving spouse
if he
fails to
exe-
cute
a
spousal waiver.38
Drafters
may also wish
"to
include a
provision
whereby a
spouse's
share
of other
property passing
by
virtue
of
the
agree-
ment
will
be reduced if
the
spouse
eventually
receives
the
pen-
sion benefits
which were
[purportedly]
waiied
in
the
agreement."3e
Akin to this
provision
is
one
that has a
"specific
remedy for failure to comply
with
the
waiver,
including
dam-
âges."4o
In
this case,
the agreement
should
further stipulate
that
if the spouse does not sign the
waiver,
"he
or she will
pay
dam-
ages to
the
designated beneficiaries."4l Similarly,
an
agreement
might contain a clause stating that the failure to execute a
post-
marital waiver
"will
cause money received by the spouse from
the
retirement
plan
to
go
into a constructive trust for
the desig-
nated beneficiaries.
"a2
fV. IVaivers of
Permanent Alimony, Temporary
AlÍmony,
and Counsel Fees
The
Uniform
Premarital Agreement Act explicitly
allows
parties
to make agreements
regarding
"the
modification
or elimi-
nation of spousal support"a3 and
"any
other matter, including
their
personal
rights and obligations,
not
in violation of
public
policy
or a statute imposing a criminal
penaLty."++
The American
Law Institute, in its Principles of the Law of Family Dissolution:
Analysis and Recommendations, suggests a broad scope regard-
ing what subject matter can be included in
prenuptial
agreements
and, accordingly, the waiver of alimony is
permissible
in its
rec-
& Tn. J. 1,
(2002).
This author has found no case
law
i¡r which these types
of
provisions
are discussed.
rd.
Mills, supra note 31, at 579
Id.
rd.
Id.
UNr¡.
Pn¡rr¡anrr¡.r- Âcnrnr,r¡¡¡r z\sr
,
9C U.L.A. 35,
$
3(a)(4)
at
43
Id
$
3(a)(8)
at
a3.
38
39
40
4l
42
43
(2001).
M
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21,
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ommended
statutory
framework.as
In
states
that
have
not
adopted
the UPAA,
the trend
has
been to
allow parties
to make
such
agreement.
No
states
have
yet
adopted
the
ALI
princþles.
Although
such
waivers
were
prohibited
at common
law,
as
of February
2008,
43
jurisdictions
now
permit
parties
to
waive
alimony
in
a
prenuptial
agreement
or, more precisely,
they
are
no
longer void per
se.a6
In
all states
that
permit
waivers
of
alimony,
these
waivers
will not
be
enforced
if the
enforcement
would render
the
spouse
a
public
charge.aT Furthermore,
waivers in
a
given
case
may
be
stricken
as
a result
of either
the substantive
or
procedural
fair-
ness
tests ín
a
particular
state
as applied
to
the
particular
set of
facts
before
the
court. Although
alimony
in
modern
U.S. law
is
now
generally
a
proper
subject
matter
for
inclusion
in
a
prenup-
tial
agreement,
the alimony
provision
will rise
or fall
according
to
the
factual circumstances
of
the case
and
the law
of the
applica-
ble state.
The
issue
of temporary
alimony
is,
however,
a
different
mat-
ter
altogether.
The
majority
U.S. rule
is
that
spouses
have
a duty
to support
one
another
during
the marriage
and
that parties
can-
not
agree to
terms
that hold
them harmless
from
support
obliga-
tions
in
coverture.as
Because
temporary
alimony
is
support
that
is
rendered prior
to
the
judgment
of
final
divorce
and;
tñerefore,
during
the marriage,
many
courts
have
viewed prenuptial
agree-
ments
as invalid
to the
extent
that
they relieve
one
spouse
of his
duty
to
support
the
other
spouse.ae
According
to
one treatise,
4s
American
Law Institute,
Principles
of the Law
of
Family
Dissolution:
Analysis
and Recommendation,
ch.7
(2002)
[hereinafter
,,ALI
princþles"].
46
Id.
47
See,
e.g., Bassle¡
v. Bassler,
593 A.zd
82
(Vt.
1991) (enforcement
of
agreement
was contrary
to
public
policy
when wife
was
on
welfare
at the
time
of
the hearing).
48
Hugh,
v.
Nor
1e78);
P.2d
1030
(N.M.
1979);Mirizio
v.
Mirizio,
150 N.E.
605
(N.y.
1926);Motley
v.
Motley,
120
S.E. 422
(N.C.
t96t).
4e
LrNoBy
& Panrev,
supra
note
35,
at
g
110.69,
citing Eule,320
N.E.2d
506.
424 Journal
of the
American
Academy
of
Matrimonial
,
even
including
such a
provision in an agreement
might render
tl'
whole
agreement
void.so
Shortly
after
Florida opened
the
doors
for
prenuptial
agree-
ments in
its state and
the rest
of the
country
in Posner v. Pos-
ner,s7
the Supreme
Court
of
Florida,
jn
Belcher v'
Belcher,s2
contronteci
another
prenuptiai agreement.
in fact, tire üne
of
Florida
cases
following
Belchers3
illustrates
the
policy
concerns
underlying
the
general
prohibition against
the waiver
of tempo-
rary support.
As
distinguished
fuom Posner,sa
whose
agreement
sought
only
to
apply following
the
party's divorce,
in Belcher,ss
the
agreement
contained
a blanket
waiver
of
"any
and all" claims
that the
wife would
have
against
the husband.
Mrs.
Belcher
filed
a
suit
for alimony
unconnected
with
a
divorce.
Mr' Belcher
sought
enforcement
of the
prenuptial
agreement
that
he argued,
barred
his wife's claim
of alimony
and counsel
fees.
The court
rejected the
husband's
claim,
holding
that the
duty
of support
includes the
obligation
to
pay
alimony
and
counsel
fees
for
"so
long as she
has the
legal status
of wife."s6
Permanent
alirnony
after divorce,
the
Belcher
court noted, "is
another
mat-
teÍ."57
Other
Florida cases
have
followed
Belcher.ss
In Fechtel v.
Fechtel,se
a
Florida
appellate court
dealt
with
the
issue
of counsel
fee waivers.
The court
there
upheld a
pre-
nuptial
agreement
that
provided that, in
lieu of alimony
and
counsel
fees, the
husband
would
pay
the wife ten
dollars
in the
event of
a divorce.
The wife
challenged
the trial
court
holding
that the
agreement
was valid.
The appellate
court
found
that the
agreement
was valid
except
for
the
provision
waiving
counsel
s0
F¡vrny
Law ¡.Np
Pn¡.crrce
$
59.05
(15)(a) (Matthew
Bender
2004)
(citations omitted).
s1
233
So. 2d 381,383
(Fla. 1970).
s2
27L
So. 2d 7
(Fla.
1972).
53
Id.
s4
Posner,
233 So.
2d 381.
ss
271 So.2d
at 72.
s6
Id.
af 72.
s7
Id.
af I0.
s8
For an article
criticizingfhe
Belcher
rule, see
Christopher
Chopin,
Nup-
tial Dentßtry:
Adding Teeth
to Waivers
of Ternporary
Support,
Attorneys'
Fees
and
Costs in
Marital Agreements,
77
F¡-l^.
B.J. 48
(Aug.
2003).
se
556
So. 2d 520
(Fla.
Dist. Ct.
App. 1990).
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fees.
"A husban
during coverture
includes.liability
I needs/ability
to
pay
test)
for his
fees
and
cannot
be contractgd
away."oo
held
that
the
provision
was invalid
because
it
had
the
effect
of
waiving
the
husband's
obligation
to pay
counsel
fees
duríng
the
maniage.
A
minority
of courts
have
held
that
a
waiver
of
temporary
support
is
valid
and
enforceable.
In
those
cases,
traditional
con-
tract interpretations
are
fundamental
to the
outcomes.
The
agreement
in
Beal
v.
Beal'z
provided
that
the
wife
,,shall
receive
no
alimony
upon
divorce."63
The
trial
court
had
awarded
inv
ffi:å'ïli;
the
is illustrative.
paid
more
than
her half.
The
court
found
that the
agreement
was
60
67
62
63
64
65
Rubin,
(ohio
66
Id.
at 520.
855
So. 2d
87
(Fla.
Dist.
Ct.
App. 2003).
88 P.3d
104
(Alaska
2004).
Id.
at L13.
Id.
See
also Darr
v.
Darr,
950
S.V/.2d
867
(Mo.
Ct.
App.
1997);
Rubin
v.
690
N.Y.S.2d
742
(N,Y.
App. Div.
1999);
Kelm
v.
Kelm,
623
N.E.2d
39
1993);
Musko
v.
Musko,
697 A.zd255
(pa.1997).
268
CaL
Rptr. 895
(Cal.
Ct. App.
1990).
426 lournal
of the
American
Academy
of
Matrimonial
Lawyers
void
because
it
sought
to affect
the statutory
obligation
requiring
spouses
to
support
each
other
during
marriage.
To
the same
effect
is another
California
case,
Borelli
v. Bris-
seau.67
There,
the
parties had entered
into a
prenuptial agree-
ment
concerning
rights
to
property in
the case
of divorce
and
death.
Following
the
marriage,
the
husband
became
i11. Eager
to
leave
the
nursing
home and
return
to
his own
bed,
he struck a
deal
with
his wife;
If she would
care
for him at
the marital-home,
he would "leave"
to her
certain
property'
The
husband
died and
the wife
sought
to enforce
the modi-
fied agreement.
The court
found
that
because
the wife
already
owed
her
husband
a duty
to take
care of
him in sickness,
the
modified
contract
was
not
supported
by
new consideration
and,
therefore,
was
unenforceable.6s
Finally,
in Towles
v. Towles,6e
the
parties
had
entered
into an
agreement
whereby
the
wife
promised never
to bring
any
suit,
including
a divorce
suit,
against
her
husband.
The wife
filed
suit
and the
Supreme
Court
of South
Carolina
found the
agreement
to
be void
on the
grounds that the
husband
had a duty
to support
his wife
and
that the wife
had
no means
of enforcing
that right
if
the
agreement
were
enforced.
V. Child
Support
and Child
CustodY
Not
surprisingly,
provisions in a
prenuptial agreement
pur-
porting to
affect
the
rights of
the
parties' children
are void
as
against
public
policy. Provisions
limiting
child
support
are
unen-
forceable,
as
are
provisions
that
seek
to dictate
the
custody of
a
child
or a
parenting
schedule
unless
the disposition
is also
in
the
best
interests
of the
child.To
67
L6 Cal.
Rptr. 2d
16
(Cal.
Ct, App.
1993).
68
Id.
6e
1825.8.2d
53
(S.C.
1971).
Two things
should
be
noted abottt
Towles-
First,
it involved
a
post-marital
"reconciliation
agreement,"
although
the same
rationale
would
clearly apply
to a
prenuptial agreement.
Second,
it was
over-
ruled on
equal
protection
grounds
insofar
as
it held that
a husband
had a duty
to
suppoft
his
wife.
The modern
duty speaks
to spousal
obligations
generally.
Hardee
v. Hardee,
585 S.E.2d
501, 504
(S'C.
2003)
70
S¿e
MonceN
&
TunNen, supra
îoÍe 10,
at 390, clring
Kilgrow
v.
Kil-
grow, 107 So.
2d 885
(Ala.
1958);
Edwardson
v'
Edwardson,
798 S.W.2d
941'
946
(Ky.
1990)
(noting, in dicta,
that issues
of child
support,
child custody,
and
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One
impact
of
this
general
rule that
is less obvious but
criti-
cal to understand concerns
the ability of
a custodial
parent
in
the
context
of a divorce to
remain in the marital
home with the
chil-
dren until they are
emancipated.
In some states,
this is
referred
to
as
a "traditional
child
support
provision."71
In
the
appropriate
case, counsel should argue
that, although
a
prenuptial
agreement
may be valid, the custodial
parent's rights
to
remain
in the mari-
tal
home
is unaffected
by the agreement.
The
proscription
against
custody
provisions
can also
affect
prenuptial
waivers of counsel
fees
in
cases where
such
fees have
been
incurred for custody
issues. In a Washington
case, the
par-
ties entered into a
prenuptial
agreement
containing
broad fee
waiver
language.Tz
While
the wife was
still
pregnant
with their
first
child,
the husband
filed for divorce; both
parties
sought
cus-
tody of the infant daughter,
and the wife
incurred about
$3L,000
in connection with litigating
these child-related
issues.
The trial court denied
the wife's
request
for an award of
counsel fees on the basis
that the
prenuptial agreement
barred
such relief. The wife argued
that the state
has an
interest in
pro-
tecting the
ability
of a financially weaker
party
to contest custody
issues in the name
of
"protecting
its
youngest
and
most vulnera-
ble citizens."73 To achieve
this, the wife
argued the
parties
must
have
a
level
playing
field where
both
parents have
"equal
access
to the courts to
present
their
evidence
regarding which
parent is
more fit to be the
primary parent."Ta The appeals
court, ac-
cepting
the
wife's argument,
reversed; the court
held
that,
to the
extent a counsel
fees
prohibition in a
prenuptial agreement seeks
to bar
fees
incurred
in litigating a
parenting
plan,
it is unenforce-
visitation cannot
be waived in a
prenuptial
agreement);
Huck v.
Huck,
734P.zd
417,419
(Utah
1986)
(child
support
not waivable by
prenuptial
agreement).
See
a/so Combs v. Sherry-Combs,
865 P.2d 50,
54
(V/yo. 1993)
(provision
in
post-
nuptial
agreement
providing
custody
to be
granted
to
the same-sex
parent
is
void as
against
public policy); Rnsratevren-r
(Secor.ro)
or CoNrnacrs
$
191;
L¡Noev & Panr-ev, supra
îo|.e 35, at
$
110.69. See also
generaþ
ALI
Princi-
ples,
supra
nofe 46,
aT
ch.l.
77
Hartog v. Hartog 535
N.E.2d 239
(Mass.
App. Ct.
7989); see also'latat
v. Schuker, 874 N.E.2d
48L
(Mass.
App.
Ct. 2007).
72
In re Marriage of
Burke, 980
P.2d 265
(Wash.
Ct.
App. 1999).
73
Id.
at267.
74
Id.
428
Journal
of
the American
Academy
of Matrimonial
Lawyers
able.Ts
In
any
event,
the
case
should
encourage
counsel
litigating
prenuptial
agreements
to
segregate
child-related
billing
in
these
matters.
Way off
the
beaten
track
is
the issue
of
pet
custody.
Ani-
mals
have
long
been
regarded
as
personal
property
in the
law
animal
in
the past.7ó
Vf. Regulaúion
of
Conduct
During
the
Marriage
Courts
have rarely
considered
and
generally
refused
to
en-
force prenuptial
agreements
regulating
the rules
of
conduct
dur-
ing
the
marriage,
in keeping
with
"the well-established
rule
that
s to
's
daily
leas
es with
won
do not
want
to
enforce
agreements
that
provide
that
a treasured
snow-
ball
collection
may
be kept
in
the
fueezer;
that
one
party
must
walk
the
dog,
or that
a
husband
has
the
option
to sue
for
divorce
if
his
wife
gains
more
than
fifteen
pounds.,,78
Cases
actually
litigated
between
spouses
during
an intact
marriage
are particularly
rare.
In
one
such
case,
during
an intact
marriage, parents
became
involved
in
a dispute
regarding
whether
to
send
the
child
to a
particular
school.
The
court,
in
Kilgrow
v. Kilgrow,Te
found
that
it was
without
jurisdiction
to
act
in
the
matter
because
the
"controversy
involved
a family
dispute
7s
Id
at266.
76
See
generally,
Heidi
Stroh,
Puppy
Love:
providing
for
the
Legal
protec-
tion of
Animals
when
Their
owners
Get Divorced.
2
Axrvran
L. &
Ernrcs
231
(2007);
see
also A¡rn
Hartwell
Britton,
Bones
of contention:
Custody
of
Family
Pets,20
J. Avr.
Acao.
Mannrrvr.
L¡w.
1
(2006).
77
Judith
T.
Younger,
Perspectives
on Antenuptial
Agreements:
An
Upd,ate,
8 J. Avr.
Acao.
M,o.rnrrø.
Law.
1,
8
(1992).
7a
Al[son
A. Marston,
Planning
for
Love: The
politics
of
prenuptial
Agreements,49
SraN.
L. Rev.
887,
900
(7997),
referring
to
actual
agreements
reported
in
Judith
Rehak,
Prenuptial
Accords:
watking Down
the Aisle
and
Reading
Fine
Print,
INr'r- Ilpn¡.r-o
Tnrs.
14
(Feb.
25,
1995).
7e
107 So.
2d
885
(Ala.
1959).
The prenuptial
agreement
at issue
provided
that
the children
born of
the marriage
were
to be
educated il
the
religion
of
the
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and there
was no
question
concerning
the custody
of the
child,
and
the
parents
and the
child
were all living
together
as a family
group."80
Other
reasons
for
the
courts' lack of
enthusiasm
for becom-
ing involved
in intact
marriages
are
enforcement
difficulties
and
the
complexity
of
gauging
economic injury.
As
one
commentator
notes,
"a court
would
be
ill-equipped
to specifically
enforce a
provision
allocating
housework
between
the spouses,
or to mea-
sure the
value
of such
work in
awarding
damages for
a spouse's
failure
to
perfor¡¡."8r
While courts
are less than
eager
to make
pronouncements
about
which
spouse
should clean
the bathroom
or do the dishes,
they
are more
inclined
to
render
judgment
if the issue
is about
money.
Indeed,
although
still
quite
rare,
courts have
enforced
agreements
regarding
the
financial
consequences
of divorce
or
deaths
even
where
the spouses
are in
intact
marriages.
In one
such
case,
a
prenuptial
agreement provided
that the
husband
purchase
a
life
insurance
policy
in a specified
amount
for
the
wife's benefit.
The
court in
that case
held that
the wife
could
sue
during
the marriage
specifically
to
enforce
the
obligation.sz
In
another
case,
a spouse
was
permitted
to seek
a declara-
tory
judgment
during an intact
marriage
regarding
the
interpreta-
tion
of
a
prenuptial
agreement.
The
wife in Trossman
v.
Trossmans3
asserted
that, if
her husband
predeceased
her, she
in-
tended
to
exercise
her rights
to dower
and
to her intestate
share.
The husband,
in response,
filed
a
complaint for
declaratory
judg-
ment
that
the
prenuptial
agreement barred
her from
taking
under
the
intestacy
statute. The
wife sought
to dismiss
the action
on
the
grounds
that her
husband's
complaint
failed
to state
a
cause
of
action.
The court rejected
the
wife's argument,
finding
father.
The
school
to which the father
wanted the
child
to
go
\ryas
associated
with his particular
religious
denomination.
80
Id.
aI 888.
81
Laura
P.
Graham,
The Uniþrm
Premarital
Agreement Act
and Modern
Social Policy:
The Enforceability
of Premarítal
Agreements
Regulating
the
Ongoing
Marriage,23
Ware Fonnsr
L. Rev. 1037,
1060
(1993).
82
Loyd
v. Loyd,48
S.E.2d 365
(Ga.
1945).
See alsoFart';-
H. Spencer,
Expanding
Marital
Options:
Enforcement
of
Premarital
Contracts During
Mar-
riage,7989
U.
Crl. Lecar-
F.281.
83
165
N.E.2d
368
(Itl.
App.
Cr.
1960).
430
lournal of the Americøn
Academy of
Matrimonial
Lawyers
that there
was an actual controversy between the
parties
and that
the husband
was entitled to a declaratory
judgment.
Similarly, in Sanders v. Sanders,sa the Tennessee
Court of
Appeals upheld an
order of specific
performance,
during an in-
tact marriage,
of a
provision
in
a
prenuptial
agreement requiring
the husband to convey a
particular piece
of
property
and
to exe-
cute a
will with certain
provisions.
The
majority of cases in
which
conduct-related
provisions
of
a
prenuptial
agreement are at issue occur in the context
of a di-
vorce or separate support action and not during a
viable and
in-
tact
marriage. Two cases in
particular
demonstrate
the
judiclal
unwillingness
to enforce
provisions
in
prenuptial
agreements that
relate
to living
arrangements.
In Mengal
v.
Mengal,ss the
parties
had entered into
an oral
premarital
agreement
prohibiting
the wife's
two
children from
a
prior
marriagc
from living with the
partics
during the marriage.
The
court
held
that, assuming such oral agreements
were en-
forceable,s6
this
particular
agreement
was
unenforceable
because
it
"threatens the
relationship between
parent
and children and
hence
would controvert
public policy."az
"Mothers,"
the
court
concluded,
"should
have their children live with them."88
For the
reverse
proposition,
that children should have
their
mothers live
with them, consider Koch v. Koch, in which
the
par-
ties
orally agreed
prior
to their marriage that
the husband's
mother
could live with the
parties
indefinitely.se The marriage
had
gone
swimmingly, both
parties
agreed,
"as
perfect
a marriage
as any marriage could be,"eo
until shortly
after
the
first
Mrs.
Koch
arrived from her native Hungary to move in
with
the happy
couple. The situation following her arrival had become
unbear-
able, according to the wife.el The
parties
consulted both
a mar-
riage counselor
and a
psychiatrist,
both of whom advised that the
mother should move out. The
wife
gave
her husband
an ultima-
a4
288
S.W.2d
473
(Tenn.
Ct. App. 1955).
8s
103 N.Y.S.2d 992,993
(N.Y.
Dom.
Rel. Ct. 1951).
86
Id.
T\e court did
not decide
this issue.
a7
Id. at994.
88
Id. at 994-995.
8e
Koch v. Koch,232 A.zd 157,158
(N.J.
Super.
Ct.
1967).
eo
Id.
at
1.59.
e7
Id.
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tum, to the effect of
"it's
either
her or me."e2 The husband stuck
by his
mother, refusing
to evict her, and the wife
moved out
uiith
her
two daughters.e3
The
wife
filed
suit
for
support, and the husband defended
that since the wife's departure was unjustified, under the
fault-
based
regime
then in effect in New Jersey, she was
not entitled to
support. The
husband
testified
that he
probably
would
not have
entered into the marriage
without
the
promise
and that he would
welcome his wife back in the home if she
would
honor
the
agree-
ment.ea The trial court found for
the
husband, rejecting the wife's
claim for support.
The
appellate court
reversed, refusing
to enforce
the agree-
ment
on several
grounds,es
one of which
was
the
public policy
to
"preserve
the marriage
and
eliminate contentious elements that do
violence ¡o i¡"e6- language about her mother-in-law that surely
pleased
the wife.
Finally,
the court offered this about that
peculiar
relation-
ship between daughters-in-law and the female members of her
husband's family:
"It
is
common
knowledge
to all experienced
in
such matters
that the female members of the husband's
family
frequently
create, either intentionally
or
unintentionally an un-
settled or disturbed condition
of
mind in
the wife which
is de-
structive
of her happiness and comfort."eT
Courts
have
also been most unenthusiastic about entering
provisions
in
prenuptial
agreements regarding sexual relations.
In Favrot
v.
Favrot,e8 the
parties
at the husband's
insistence,
en-
tered in
an oral
prenuptial
agreement limiting sexual
relations
to
once
per
week.
In
the
ensuing divorce, the wife sought an alimony award;
the
husband argued that,
pursuant
to the Louisiana law at the
e2
Id.
e3
Id. She had an infant
daughter
from
the
marriage
with
Mr. Koch and a
teenage
daughter from a
previous
marriage.
e4
Id. at 1,59.
e5
Id. aT 760.The
court noted that oral agreements in
contemplation of
marriage
we¡e unenforceable. In
addition,
the court noted that affirmative ob-
ligations
of indefinite duration
will
rarely be enforced in
perpetuity.
e6
1d.
(emphasis
supplied).
e7
Id. atl6l,,citingYenetv.
Koelrnel, 110 So. 42I,422
(La.
Sup. Cl
1926).
e8
332 So.2d873,875
(La.
Ct. App. 1976),rev'don other
grounds,339So.
2d 843
(La.
1976),
432
lournal of
the American Academy
of Matrimonial
Lawyers
time, the
wife
was
not
entitled to alimony
because of her marital
fault in
violating
the agreement
by wanting to have
relations
three times
a day. The
wife testified that
she abided
by the
agreement
"despite
her frustration
at not being
'permitted' at
other
times even to touch her husband."ee
The
trial court rejected
the husband's
claim and the
appel-
late court
affirmed, holding
that a
party
cannot
contractually
rnodily the
marital obligation
to
"fulfill
'the
reasonable
and nor-
mal sex
desires of each
o1|r"¡.':'100 In Favrot,
the
issue
was before
the court in connection
with a divorce
action. It appears
doubt-
ful for
the reasons
expressed earlier in
this chapter,
that, if the
issue
were
raised
ih the
context of an intact marriage,
the court
would
intervene.
In some
cases courts have
refused to enforce
agreements
concerning
a
choice of marital domicile.
The cases
appear to
turn, however,
on thc common law rulc
that the
wife's domicile is
the husband's
domicile
and that a
prenuptial
agreement
cannot
abrogate that
right.tot In any
event, although the rationale
would
be different, it is doubtful
that the courts
would enforce
these agreements.loz
Finally,
provisions
in agreements
that attempt
to articulate
the
duties of each
parent
with respect to
the other
party's
chil-
dren from
a
previous
marriage have
also been stricken.lo3
Interestingly,
notwithstanding
the
judicial
unwillingness
to
wade
through
the minutiae
of chore-sharing,
toilet-cleaning
and
dog walking,
the UPAA defines a much
broader scope for
what
ee
Id.
at 875.
100
Id. citing Mudd v.
Mudd, 20 So. 2d 317
(La.
1944).
For
an
examination
of the role
of sexual intercourse in
the legal status
of
marriage,
see Latrertce
Drew Borten, Note,
Sex, Procreation
and the State Interest in Marriage,
t02
Co¡-uvr. L. Rev. 1089
(2002).
1o1
See, e.g.,Isaacs
v. Isaacs,99 N.V/.268
(Neb.
1904); Sprinkle
v. Ponder,
64 S.E.zd
171
(N.C.
1951).
toz
,See
Graham, supra note
81, at 1046
("Again,
the dearth of
published
decisions regarding
choice of domicile suggests
that courts have
been unwilling
even to entertain
the issue except in very
unusual circumstances."),
See also
Dennis I.
Belcher, A Practitioner's
Guide
for
Negotiating,
Drafting and Enforc-
ing Premarital
Agreements,3T R¡ar Pnop.
Pnoe.
& Tnusr J.1,
(2002);
Dennis
I. Belcher
&Latta O. Pomeroy,
For Richer,
for
Poorer:
Strategies
for
Premarital
Agreements, 12
Pnos.
&
Pnop. 54
(Dec.
1998),
103
In re
Garrity and Bishton, 226
CaL Rptr, 485
(Ct.
App,
1986).
l
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may be
included
in
a
prenuptial
agreement,
asserting
that parties
to
an
agreement
may
contract
with respect
to
,,any,,
matter,
,,in-
cluding
their
personal
rights
and
obligations,
not in
violation
of
public policy
or
a statute
imposing
a criminal
penalty.',roa
The
ALI Principles
are
similarly permissive
in terms
of scope.1Os
VII. The
Religious
Upbringing
of
Children
Prenupti
the
religious
upbringing
of
the
children
nenforceable
according
to
the
"great
w
"106
,{g
one
commentator
ginable
that
a court
would specifically
--ï#.
religious
education
of
any chil-
Zummo
v. Zummo,rou
oo"
of the
leading
cases, is
an
excel-
lent
illustration
of
the
principles
at work
h
married,
the
future
Mr.
and
Mrs.
Zummo
children
born
of
the
marriage
would
be
faith."1Oe
The parties
had
three
children.
Mrs.
Zummo
subse-
quently
filed
a
d the parties
stipulated
that
she
would
stody
subject
to the fa-
ther
having
par
lternating
weekends.110
During
the marriage,
the
children participated
actively
in
Jewish
activities;
observing
the
Sabbath
every
Friday
night,
at-
tending
synagogue
during
the
high
holidays.
In
addition,
the
children
were
all formally
given
Hebrew
names.
The
parents
to-
gether
even participated
in
couples groups
at
their
synagogue
as
104
1os
note 44,
at
$
3(a)(8).
106
)
1.o7
Super.
Ct. 1990).
rnn,
Favu-y
Law
eNo
Pn¿'srrce
$
20.5,
at
647
(2d
ed. 1996),
cited in
Kendall
v Kendall,
687 N.E.2d
1228,
1230 (Mass.
L997).
see
aßo
M-¿rtin
weiss
& Robert
Abramoff,
The En-
forceability
of
Religious
upbringing
Agreements,25
J.
Mensnalr-
L.
Rev. 655
(1992).
For
an
opposing
view,
see
Jocelyn
E.
Strauber,
Note,
á Deal
ß
a
Deal:
Antenuptial
Agreements
Regarding
the Religious
upbringing
Agreernents
should
be Enforceøble,
47 Dvrn
L,J.97I (1998).
108
Zummo,
578
A.2d
at L148.
1oe
Id. at
1141.
This is the
court,s
cha¡acterization
of the Zummo
agree-
ment
and
not
necessarily
a verbatim
recording
of the
exact
words
used by
the
parties.
110
Id.
438
lournal of the American Academy
of
Matrimonial
Lawyers
tire
agreement will be held invalid. If,.however,
the
offending
terms are
collateral in nature, then only those
provisions
will be
invalidated. In HoweII v. Landry,131
for example, the court re-
fused to enforce
an alimony waiver
provision
in a
prenuptial
agreement but did not invalidate the
entire agreeürent, holding
that
the alimony
provision
was severable from the
contract. Simi-
larly, in Rogers
v. Yourshaw,L2 the court struck the
provisions
in
a
prerruptial
agreement relatirrg to chiltl support bul
enlorced the
remainder of the agreement.133
The intent
of the
parties
is
persuasive
and, for that
reason,
drafting
counsel is urged to include a severability
clause
provid-
ing for
the severance of unenforceable terms.l3a
XilI.
Conclusion
Notwithstanding the ascendance of
private
ordering, the
trend
toward
increased individual
autonomy in making contracts,
the marriage institution remains
a
province
in which the courts
and
society
have
a substantial vested
interest.
Moreover, as
par-
ties
intending to be married deal at
less-than-arm's-length
in
a
confidential relationship, limitations on complete contractual
freedom are appropriate. In
any
event,
as
these
agreements be-
come more
prevalent
in
the coming
years,
the lawyer
who
is ad-
ept at understanding their limitations
will be
well
served.
L3t
Howell v.
Landry,
386 S.E.2d 610
(N.C.
Ct. App. 1989).
732
448 S.E.2d 884
(Va.
Ct. App 1994).
t33
In Missouri, at least with respect to
prenuptial
agreements, the law
is
quite
clearly
to the contrary. Brennan v. Brennan,
955 S.W.2d
779
(Mo.
Ct.
App. 1997)
(holding prenuptial
agreements are not
severable: they must stand
or fall as a whole).
To
the same effect is Kester v. Kester, 108
S.W.3d
213,
224(Mo.
Ct.
App. 2003).
t34
59 Favrlv Law aNo Pn,q.crrcB
$
59.05(25), recommending
the
prac-
tice and citing In re Marriage of Mathiasen,268 Cal. Rptr.895,897
(Cal.
Ct.
App. 1990)
("if
an invalid
provision
is
'inseverably
linked'to
the agreement as a
whole, the entire
agreement will
be void;
if
in contrast, an invalid
provision is
severable, the
remainder of the agreement will be valid.").
See also Mark
L.
Movsesian, Severability in Statutes and Contracts,30
Ga. L. Rsv.
47
(7995).